New Year's Resolutions Start Today

I am a fan of resolutions in general, but New Year’s resolutions are frequently unsuccessful. Let's assume, however, that 2017 is going to be different. There is a lot of advice on how to make the change stick. Here is one you may not have heard before though: start planning for your 2017 New Year’s Resolution now. 

Think about what a successful New Year’s Resolution looks like for a moment. It is probably not just a 6-week habit, or even a year-long habit, but more likely a lifelong change. To think that one can simply wake up January 1st slightly hungover and change one’s life is unrealistic. Rather, one must plan now.

Here is a hypothetical schedule:

  • October - 
  • Consider potential New Year’s Resolutions.
  • Make a decision to pursue one.
  • Decide what is going to be sacrificed. There are still only 24 hours in a day, but you now have added something to your life. As a result something must be given up, whether that is another activity, time, energy, or a combination of all three. What are you no longer going to do to make time for your new change?
  • November - 
  • Talk with other people who have achieved your resolution.
  • Read three to five books on the topic.
  • Create a few post-mortems. This is an exercise where you hypothetically assume everything went wrong, identify what could have caused this, and then learn from the mistakes in order to avoid actually doing them.
  • December -
  • Purchase the necessary equipment, supplies, or other required items. If your resolution involves waking up early, don’t start that January 1. Gradually ease into it, so come January 1 you are accustomed to waking up early.
  • Create a schedule or system to track progress and foster accountability - maybe in the form of a journal or simply marking a calendar.
  • Possibly test your New Year’s Resolution in advance to get an idea of anything you may not have anticipated.
  • Consider what you are going to do if you have an off day or get thrown off track.

Success lies in the preparation. Starting to think about New Year’s Resolutions now initially sounds ridiculous. However, consider a successful New Year’s Resolution: it is probably a big deal. Three months of getting ready is a minimum requirement. Start thinking and planning now.

The Most Valuable Class I Ever Took: Lessons on Exponential Versus Linear Growth

The most valuable class I took in college was Keyboarding 101. It was an entry-level typing class. I was a terrible typer, entering the class with zero knowledge or ability on the correct typing form. With maybe one or two exceptions, I was the worst in the class. 

The class was 15 weeks long. After we learned the correct finger positioning and first started recording our typing, I was around 18 words per minute, which is really slow. Each day we were assigned a homework assignment which always consisted of practicing lines on certain keystrokes. For weeks I saw little to zero progress. Half way through the course, at around the eight week mark, I was typing in the low twenties for words per minute. Again, not very good.

Then something funny started happening with about four weeks of class to go. I started seeing drastic improvement. All of a sudden I was increasing my speed and improving my accuracy at a remarkable rate. I remember thinking to myself, “wow, this is amazing.” It truly was an incredible change, seemingly out of the blue. I went from the worst in the class to one of the best in the final four weeks, tripling my words per minute from the beginning of the year.

I learned two important lessons from this:

One, I need to be patient. Whether it be exercising, learning a new skill, or simply adjusting to a change, one of the biggest mistakes is expecting results too quickly and then giving up when they do not occur in a rapid manner. Second, growth is not linear; it is exponential. I often expect the former, but it is almost always the latter. This look like the difference between the blue line and the red line:

The keyboarding class was useful because I now type every day. In addition, I’ll never forget going from frustrated to amazed as I saw little results the first ten weeks and a tremendous change the final five weeks. I can’t stress enough the importance of this takeaway and how much it resonated with me. It would be well-heeded to keep it in mind.